Meeting a real nice senior
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Pubblicato:18 Novembre 2017 7:05 am
Ultimo aggiornamento:20 Ottobre 2021 2:14 pm 9438 visite
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Now that title can be a question also. How do you go about it in a straight world without giving yourself away. In a gay bar or bath they are there for the same reason .. But,,, you have a real cute married neighbor in his 80s you are totally in love with and it is like torture every time you see him as you can't just reach out and touch him . Of course you help him out when he or his wife needs and and you are in their good graces, but that doesn't get you to first base. And since no one but a few close friends even know about me I'm not about to put my reputation on the line and tell him I have the hots for him.
What does a person in the closet do in a case like this ?
Positive reinforcement . I do say call me for anything at anytime since they are in their 80s . I take him for a coffee if he is available . We have cocktails or night caps back and forth every so often . I guess the ball is in his court . By now he must have caught on or not or maybe he is in the same situation and afraid to make the first move tooooo.
The man who brought me out always told me never to make the first move in a straight situation and never to crap in my back yard.
So help me out ,,, what does a man do ? For now I'm going to look at a pic of him and j/o................................................................
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Loving Grandpas
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Pubblicato:13 Novembre 2017 5:57 pm
Ultimo aggiornamento:18 Aprile 2024 6:17 pm 10628 visite
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I loved grandmas and grandpas all my days from as far back as I can remember . AS I grew my love of grandpa turned sexual but being from a small town and very naive I had no idea or understanding of what was happening in my head. I struggled with this and lived a straight life till 30 and finally met a man 35 yrs older than myself and after 6 months of beer/scotch chats he took me home . My first time and I never looked back. He is still the youngest man I was ever with . Mostly now I gravitate to men in their 80s although there are a very few who achieve the look I like in their late 60s and early 70s.
Although I looked ok ( masculine appearing and acting ) was in a successful career and financially good, coming on to a nice 75 to 90 year old in a gay bar tended to raise a lot of red flags . It was very hard to get to first base for many till they got to know me thought I could have been a hustler or worse .
But perseverance does pay off and I managed to meet some very nice mature gents and eventually settle down.
As times goes by I'll tell of some experiences and would like to hear of some too.
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Aging
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Pubblicato:7 Novembre 2017 8:35 pm
Ultimo aggiornamento:19 Novembre 2017 7:05 pm 15432 visite
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Age is going to come to all of us . the problem is that many have trouble accepting the fact that nothing lasts for ever. I have known a number of masc men who were total tops in their youth and after they lost the ability to perform went through many trials and tribulations till they accepted the fact . That is when they came to terms and decided to be a provider and receive pleasure and satisfaction knowing they were able to please and pleasure those who were able . I'm not as active as I was and know the day is coming . When it does I will turn too or I'll just have to become a recluse , not likely LOL . I have had a good life with lots of great sex that was given to me by many super mature grandpa types over the years . I don't think I'll become a chicken hawk by any means but would be able to help some guys in their 60s and 70s till my time comes and will be satisfied with it . I'm sure if I can't accept it ,,, it will drive me crazy.,
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My harem of Grandpas
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Pubblicato:6 Novembre 2017 8:05 am
Ultimo aggiornamento:18 Aprile 2024 6:17 pm 11633 visite
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Wishful thinking . Oh how nice it would be to run through my favorite pics and have one zapped to my bed for a few hours of masculine extacy. I'm really not sure I have it in me as I'd probably fall in love at some point with one of them and frustrate them and my self . How conflicted a statement is that? I have 3 good friends who know about each other and they plan around each other for their visits . Love them all but they are all happily married and have huge families being all 3 are over 80. I consider myself lucky to have them but in a selfish thought I'm thinking I would like one of them around when it was convenient for me too. Don't get me wrong as they are all great and do love me and would do anything to please me and do. I'm talking about all the lonely nights sitting on a chat line with a cute older grandpa on the other side of the country/world who is just like me .. Why are they always so far away ? I guess many don't have it as good as me so I think I'll just count my blessings and watch some tennis. .
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Grandpas and why I love them
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Pubblicato:6 Novembre 2017 8:04 am
Ultimo aggiornamento:19 Novembre 2017 7:05 pm 12959 visite
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To me a grandpa is someone not only who has grand children but someone who is a warm and compassionate man. The ones I usually like are more likely to be great grandpas as I like men 75 and up to 90s. But my favorites possess special qualities . You can look at their face and see a measure of kindness and warmth emanating from them . They have warm yet happy eyes that put people around them at ease . They are usually gray and or gray balding or bald with a white fringe. yet looking into their eyes you can see the warmth and kindness.
I can tell in a second a man who is content and at one with himself . That is the kind of man I seek and can fall in love with .
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Grandpas and why I like them
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Pubblicato:3 Novembre 2017 8:31 am
Ultimo aggiornamento:20 Ottobre 2021 2:15 pm 14290 visite
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To me a grandpa is someone not only who has grand children but someone who is a warm and compassionate man. The ones I usually like are more likely to be great grandpas as I like men 75 and up to 90s. But my favorites possess special qualities . You can look at their face and see a measure of kindness and warmth emanating from them . They have warm yet happy eyes that put people around them at ease . They are usually gray and or gray balding or bald with a white fringe. yet looking into their eyes you can see the warmth and kindness.
I can tell in a second a man who is content and at one with himself . That is the kind of man I seek and can fall in love with .
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